Je suis aussi très curieux, c’est un peu
pervers mais j’aimerai qu’ on fasse cette expérience.
Concernant les viols en prison en Afrique
du sud voilà la partie sur les revanches pour ceux qui comprennent l’anglais :
Revenge and cycles of abuse
Some
respondents point out that abusive behaviour can follow a cyclical pattern :
victims can
become abusers. While former woman status is not reportedly a characteristic of
the majority
of men in prison, some of the most determined men were themselves once women,say
interviewees. They often explain this as an act of revenge for what the men
weresubjected
to before they achieved ’manhood’.
Maybe
for them, there is a sense in which they feel it necessary to
display
and prove their ’manhood’ over and over so as to ensure that it can never be
takenfrom
them again. Another possible explanation for why victims may become
perpetrators isthe
role of unaddressed trauma that may well play itself out in cycles of violence.
Testimony : “Perhaps when you were ... very
afraid ... and intimidated they slept with you,and
that’s a very terrible thing ... What I’ve found is that people who will
usually
enjoy this homosexuality ... have had that done to them before. It’s like
you
want to get back at someone else. It’s amazing how selfish or evil human
beings
can be because ... when you were raped basically, you know how terrible
you
felt, how afraid you felt. But then you will want to also do it to others. So
people
who actually thrive on this behaviour and who will always be wanting to
sleep
with boys or men are those that have had this done to them before.
There
are some of these people that have sex in jail ... [who] are doing a skiet
terug
[revenge] because someone once did that to them.Those [men who] have [had] done
that to them - they are crazy. They always
want
to do it ».